disillusioning
ˌdɪsɪˈluːʒ(ə)n
verb
cause (someone) to realize that a belief they hold is false.
if they think we have a magic formula to solve the problem, don’t disillusion them
disabuse,undeceive,enlighten,set straight,open someone’s eyes,disenchant,shatter someone’s illusions,disappoint,make sadder and wiser,throw cold water on